Smile, The Best Dress Ever



"I can be nothing but naked and still be the best-dressed man ever because I would be wearing a beautiful smile
                          -Pradyumn Tiwari




                                               This is me all smiles with my mother.

You can easily sense the amount of confidence I place on a beautiful smile and the reasons will unfold themselves like the petals of rose throughout this blog.
I read a book. In fact, a book that changed my life forever. It made life easy for me, connecting and understanding people was listed as a strength of mine. This book is "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie. In this book, Carnegie introduces us to a beautiful dress, a genuine smile. He presented it with wonderful showmanship and thus I put on this dress the next day of my college and Viola!! I discovered the power of smile because when you start smiling genuinely, you instantly become more charismatic and more handsome in all your exuberance. You feel happier and unencumbered.
And whilst meeting strangers, just smile and they will be charmed at the instant.
Smile at a stranger today at the bus stop, you will instantly lighten up the mood, fill the emptiness between you two and probably this will lead to a healthy friendship for a lifetime. You automatically become more amicable and this results in huge networks and acquaintances in your entire lifetime. I can say this from my family's experience that your contacts and network mean a lot and prove their worth in the long run. Just make sure to network with the right people and the rest will be taken care of.

                                                   Smile and Babies.Ultimate chick magnets.

Ladies. I met this girl at an internship and within a few days we hit it off. We share a healthy friendship now and she told me that my first impression on her was of boring. Because I had a book in front of my table which read "Think and Grow Rich" and I was too focussed and was gravely listening to the speaker. But the instant I smiled on a joke, she fell for me and was instantly intrigued. Although I am shy of sharing my experience with the ladies, this irrespective of your gender was important as your smile instantly makes you more attractive.

Psychology. I read this in a trusted source that just like when you are happy and you automatically start to smile, the vice-versa is also true. So, the next time when you feel sad and lonely just smile. Smile for a minute and see your mood lighten up. I have noticed that as you start smiling more at others the more smiles you receive and this sort of multiplies into a lot of happiness. This power of smile was used even on kings in the ancient times. A queen in order to keep the king all to herself always use to smile in his presence( elegantly not creepily) and this worked like a charm as the king soon related his queen to happiness and therefore never married again although he had all the freedom to do so.


I highly recommend How to Win Friends and Influence People for everyone who wants to live a more fulfilling and successful life.




Thank You.
Rise and Shine.

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